Tuesday, 1 February 2011

Underneath the abaya is a different story! abaya or fashion statement?

In my previous post abayas got a lot of attention so I decided to write a post only on them, or actually, how it's like to wear one and what is underneath!
 
I often get asked the question what do women in UAE wear under the abaya? Doesn't it get hot? How does it feel, isn't it horrible?
 
There is as many answers as there is women wearing abayas, so I cannot generalize. Also it depends on the weather, varies greatly between the chilly winter months and the intense summer heat.

Mostly people will not know/ see what a woman is wearing under her abaya so the good thing to this is, you don't have to think too much before leaving the house! It's a relief for the husbands too, no more last minute "what shall I wear" "does this make me look fat" scenarios with the misses! Also enables shopping in pyjamas if feeling lazy.

Abayas come in really thin lightweight fabrics (in addition to the henious polyester). Wearing one of these abayas made fom natural materials feels almost as if you are wearing a "breeze" around you. Movement makes air flow soflty around your body creating airconditioned environment. When the abaya fabric is really thin, it's good that the color is black. If it were a light color it would be see-through (like some mens thobes in the summer)! So the black color enables these very thin fabrics like cotton, silk, linen and jersey. I'm not sure but I would guess most of these lightweights are actually a mix of those fabrics.
 
From living in the UAE I witnessed a rather dramatic evolution in abaya styles worn by local women. It was certainly not a majority even among young women, but many abayas were adorned with clear glass sequins, or black tufts of fabric, and some even added color to the basic black abaya. It was as if it was acceptable to wear an abaya to cover your clothes and create uniformity, and at the same time add another layer to express flamboyance or individuality. I found it puzzling.

The National has a story on this subject. Some extracts:
Embroidered crystals of black, blue and white glitter on the sleeves of Nouf al Hamly’s open abaya and the lining of her shaila.

Both pieces of clothing are impeccably matched to the midnight blue blouse and white skirt that the 22-year-old laboratory technician is wearing underneath.

Her sister Reem, 21, a student at Zayed University, on the other hand, has chosen a more demure version of the traditional outfit: plain and closed from the front so that the clothing beneath it is hidden from public view.

From traditional wear to fashion statement, the abaya is undergoing a massive transformation, much like the Emirati women who wear it. The subtle differences in the sisters’ outfits offer a perfect illustration of how some young women are pushing the limits of creativity while still respecting their culture.

“We have to stick to traditional boundaries, but that does not mean that we have to lose our femininity,” says Nouf al Hamly, whose point is emphasised by her perfectly presented hair and meticulous make-up.

When Reem shops for an abaya though, she says likes to “make sure it covers the right parts”.

“The way I wear my shaila and abaya is purely religious,” she adds. “I don’t like to attract attention.”
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In part, the trend may be driven by the increasing financial independence of Emirati women.

Seven UAE civil servants in 10 are now women, according to official estimates, and a report by PricewaterhouseCoopers suggests the UAE has the highest rate of women studying in university in the world.

“Now that the Emirati woman is a working woman and a productive part of society, her abaya is reflecting that change,” reflects Nouf Al Hamly.

Both she and Ms Hashem hasten to add that they choose what abaya to wear by how hectic they expect their day to be.

“If I need to go around and walk a lot, it is easier for me to have it open with jeans under it,” Ms Hashem says. “Abayas are thinner now too, for practicality, and because of the hot weather.”

I've students who sometimes wear the shaila and sometimes don't why that is. Their answer: depends on whether it's a bad hair day or not.

There are advantages to being able to throw on the black abaya and shaila. It's an immediately classy looks even in the basic versions without a lot of bother.
 

Your abaya can say alot about you

The abaya "cloak" (Arabic: عبايةʿabāyah or عباءة ʿabā'ah, plural عبايات ʿabāyāt) is long overgarment essentially a robe-like dress, worn by some women in parts of the Islamic world.
It is considered an Arabic cultural dress integrated into the hijab, or Islamic dress, for many countries of the Arabian peninsula such as Saudi Arabia or United Arab Emirates, where it is the national dress.

When Im in UAE I wear abaya- it feels weird not to. Not only is it islamic and covering but also national dress and you just dont get the same treatment without it- plus i get stares walking with my local husband down the mall as they think i'm "moroccon" or something which is unfortunately a derogatory term in this part of the world.

I just found out too that the shiny "ruby" abayas are the ones which the "moroccon bad girls" wear and nobody told me this before but since I knew I have stopped wearing. My local husband likes me in my abaya in fact he doesnt allow me to go out in anything else lol and the "khayaa6" the "abaya maker" comes to their house once a week to make new abayas for all his sisters. Mashallah he has many sisters like 15 I still confuse up their names :)

Threading eyebrows is haraam who would have thought?

This is my first blog. Ever. Excuse me if I confuse up english or arabic words I've been in the process of speaking no arabic (well being shy to speak it but understanding only- parents talking to us in arabic we reply in english) 2 years ago to learning the emaraty dialect from my fiance.

(an image I sent to my friends: my new eyebrows :(
Today we fought about guess what. Yes. Eyebrows. Unbelievable ha. Apparently its haram to thread them and he doesn't want me threading them and used a hadith "l3ana allah ilnamii9 wal mutanames" which kinda shut me up because I had nothing to reply back with. In the end I agreed not to do them and put in my mind I would have to either learn to do them myself or let him drop me to the salon and pretend to be going for a manicure- he doesn't realise if I have them done anyway as thankfully I'm not that hairy. Can one of the sisters please explain to me why its haram to thread and are there any sunni hadiths that oppose this...and its the first time I hear about "tashgeer" a method of dying the excess eyebrow blond (yes lol!) and trimming which I dont think I'd like to try as it would leave an unclean look for me.